why am i missing the BC option on the send email notificaiton action? I have SP 2013 on premise and NIntex 2013 forms/workflows
What version of Nintex do you have? It was added in the 22.214.171.124 release which was done in March 2014. Seem more here Nintex Workflow 2013 - Release Notes
I have SP 2013 version 126.96.36.199...so that explains it.
In the meantime we created a collection variable, used a dist-list and then used the for each action to blind copy.
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